Linda Jones - I Love You

THE FLAW

Life doesn’t always turn out as one may ponder...There are always decisions to make and falls to take, flips and turns that cannot be learned from teachers; in a human sense. Things taught only by lessons in your life were meant. Yet I go in a continuous cycle, repetitiously annoying yet learning nothing more than to just keep going. Am I missing the grand picture of it all? And if so, what can it be that is ultimately creating my downfall? If karma is true, then what did I do to create the repeated doom? Encased in gloom which at this point can only be a product of something I constantly do. For the circumstances never change and neither do I, but the people do; and always at the end...I cry. What is the tragic flaw that is ultimately pulling me to my demise? And why is it that when one looks into my eyes, they cannot love me as a mate? Is it because I am too late or is it they don’t have the heart enough to say what they truly see; someone not worthy of their deepest affection? I once stared at my reflection, not particularly too keen of what I gazed upon... I wonder if that’s the reason, that I’m always treated; as the one for the shoulder, and not the heart? It hurts all the same when it’s over and done. The heart and brain I usually rely on, leaves me feeling lost and in pain.

                                                                                                                                                    Anonymous

A NEW YEAR'S ABANDONMENT TO RESOLUTION

The New Year’s approaching fast! I know we have a propensity to make resolutions for the New Year but I would like to offer you something much more fulfilling. We often relate these resolutions with attaining something, or having more of something that we don’t presently have. Before disappointing yourself with another New Year’s resolution, try abandonment!

That’s right; I’m saying abandonment is the key!

If we would only first stop and take inventory of what exist within us, we could then see just what exists that is not needed. We’ve all collected some superfluous baggage along the way. Therefore, there’s much to be thrown out! I challenge you to abandon your worries, all the negative things that you have carried around with you; that you can’t repair or do anything about, after facing it head on.

I challenge you to abandon all the negative accusations that were thrown your way and you held on to it as though it was a limb that you could not function without. These are only downers; we can get these when we can’t get anything else, who need them anyway!

I challenge you to abandon any and all negative relationships that you’ve built and has allowed others to build for you in and around you life. In doing this, it is important to know that you do not have to abandon the person; just the relationship you have with them. But if it is an abusive one, by all means abandon the person!

I challenge you to abandon avoidance and face your debts & your debtors and make a working plan to repay them or be repaid. As we all know, debt usually grows interest. Let’s place our interest into something positive for ourselves. That doesn’t mean for you to charge your debtors interest; remember we’re keeping it positive.

I challenge you to abandon idleness and do the best you can do at any tasks worth doing. That goes for your job, working out, or any tasks you may take on, make it all worthwhile and worth your time.

I challenge you to abandon deferment of the projects that you wish to achieve. If it’s to start a new hobby, new job, new business (do your homework first) or taking that much needed vacation you’ve been planning for a while, go ahead. You will feel rejuvenated and alive afterwards!

I challenge you to abandon impediment of prioritizing your life and time. We must prioritize! Otherwise, we will find ourselves operating in confusion; and lots of it.

I challenge you to abandon refusal of putting your happiness high on your list of priorities. Things no longer flow when we are no longer happy. Happiness is a must!

I challenge you to abandon fear and face them as they ascend. Do not allow them to linger. There’s nothing like operating in or out of fear. You only realize fear is the size of an ant when you open your eyes and face it!

I challenge you to abandon slack and dare to step forward and show your worth. There are many things that we are capable of and very good at, don’t be afraid to show what you’re made of, it’s your time!

I challenge you to abandon being too busy or lazy to read; this coming year challenge yourself with reading at least one book on self improvement, one on understanding the behavior of others and one just for the delight of it; preferably a comedy or love story and watch how your spirit and your vocabulary begin to lift. (Guaranteed)!

Here I’ve given you 10 Vital Pointers to Starting and Enjoying a Happy and Truly Prosperous Life… so who needs a New Year’s resolution when they can Live a Glorious Life!

You See, With All These Things Comes True Freedom!

I CHALLENGE YOU TO DARE ABANDON ALL THESE THINGS IN YOUR LIFE AND LIVE YOUR HAPPIEST LIFE EVER!!!!

HAPPY NEW LIFE!

Be careful of the ships you sail!

We often enter into ships being it relation, business or friend, without giving great detail to the person that we’ve entered into these ships with. Before becoming wooed by the exterior factor or simply by someone’s ability to speak well of themselves, we should take the time it takes to get to the most vital parts that really matter; Is this ship going in the direction in which I am trying to go and when does it plan to arrive there!

Sometimes we are afraid to take certain journeys alone, and it often leaves us in a situation of becoming magnets. The problem with that is attracting those that don’t necessarily compliment us or our business and it’s not that they’re not attractive, (they’re usually very attractive in one way or another) but it leaves us finding ourselves being split in direction. Therefore we cannot reach an ultimate goal together. So why do we continue trying to move forward with someone who have the need to turn at this point or may need to make frequent pit stops when you have no need to? We learn this early on usually upon boarding the ship, that we’ve boarded the wrong one. At this point, the normal thing to do would be to turn around and exit the ship.

The sooner you exit, the fewer corrections you will have to make. Otherwise, you will find yourself years later looking back at a total wasted journey, with no idea how to correct it.

Don’t allow yourself to be so caught up on having boarded a ship just because it’s a ship. Make it intentional and deliberate!

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To Love Me is to Learn Me!

I've always spent a great amount of time observing and being very attentive to other people, especially when they didn't think I was watching. I mainly did this to get to know a persons character, before coming to know the person. At the onset of the actual acquaintance, I would have already had a great jump on the individual; knowing first of all whether or not they're worth an extended conversation after the initial greeting and secondly, having some idea of what to expect after the initial meet.

I met a wonderful guy some years ago that thought that I was wonderful as well. Within two months of becoming acquainted he told me that he loved me and I was totally shocked; I couldn't respond in kind. I just asked him to give it a little while and I guarantee that you will feel differently within the next two years. He responded, "I'll only be loving you more at that time". At this point I'm thinking this man is going to be a problem. I merely seen him as someone that made me laugh and entertained me from time to time.

Little did I know, this man had been observing me all along as well. The difference was, I observed and decided that he was great entertainment and a true friend, but he observed and realized there was something more that he wanted to explore with me. He continued exploring every detail that he could with me, while at the same time making any accommodations necessary to please.

Five years later he had become one of my best friends. Within those same five years, I had become someone he was in love with.

He said he had taken the time to learn me.

Now I know, when a man is truly interested in loving me, he will invest time in learning me. Otherwise, how could he ever please me?

Loving is Learning!

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