I've always spent a great amount of time observing and being very attentive to other people, especially when they didn't think I was watching. I mainly did this to get to know a persons character, before coming to know the person. At the onset of the actual acquaintance, I would have already had a great jump on the individual; knowing first of all whether or not they're worth an extended conversation after the initial greeting and secondly, having some idea of what to expect after the initial meet.
I met a wonderful guy some years ago that thought that I was wonderful as well. Within two months of becoming acquainted he told me that he loved me and I was totally shocked; I couldn't respond in kind. I just asked him to give it a little while and I guarantee that you will feel differently within the next two years. He responded, "I'll only be loving you more at that time". At this point I'm thinking this man is going to be a problem. I merely seen him as someone that made me laugh and entertained me from time to time.
Little did I know, this man had been observing me all along as well. The difference was, I observed and decided that he was great entertainment and a true friend, but he observed and realized there was something more that he wanted to explore with me. He continued exploring every detail that he could with me, while at the same time making any accommodations necessary to please.
Five years later he had become one of my best friends. Within those same five years, I had become someone he was in love with.
He said he had taken the time to learn me.
Now I know, when a man is truly interested in loving me, he will invest time in learning me. Otherwise, how could he ever please me?
Loving is Learning!
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Oh how true this is whenever it's real love. The answer to one of the age-old questions, "How will I know if he's really into me?"
ReplyDeleteNicely written...liked reading it. But couldn't find any relation to the picture.
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